Playing with Dominance and Submission (private instruction) 
Building trust and connection with your partner

by understanding and building ​sexual polarity

3 session series for men, women and couples
Experience the multiple ways you can bring your 

dominant/submissive persona into your erotic and sexual play. 

 "I've always been curious about my dominant side, so when my boyfriend suggested working with Jaya, I jumped at the opportunity to work with a pro. It's turned our sex life from ho-hum to omg!  Jaya is an amazing teacher." -- A.C. 

As a Certified Kink Educator, I have yet to meet someone who isn't excited by the idea of stepping into an alternative sexual persona and experiencing a way of being that is outside of their norm. Perhaps it's a side of you that your partner rarely, if ever sees. What that persona looks like is unique to everyone, and can change from day to day, depending on moods and desires. Learning how to give voice to those personas and erotically interact from those places inside, can transform your sexual experience and create novelty in a relationship. 
I take great pleasure in guiding clients in their exploration of dominance and submission and the ways it can so beautifully serve a couple's passion and connection.

I have worked with many men and women who have discovered their desire to relinquish control to one who understands how to take the reigns, or who long to lovingly lead a submitted partner into ecstatic states of surrender. What's holding you back from learning more...

  • you don't know how to confess your desires to your partner
  • you're afraid of being judged
  • your partner is turned off by what they've been exposed to through kinky porn
  • You want a training that goes deeper than a 3 hour workshop in a room with others
  • You're intimidated by the public dungeon scene 
  • You both want to go at your own pace  
  • and most importantly your looking for a training that is custom tailored for who you are as a couple, not a cookie-cutter approach that doesn't take your unique dynamic into account.

In three 90 minute sessions you and your partner can relax and enjoy each other in a private and sexy environment with a trusted guide. You will learn about your desires and the pleasure that can be found in exploring the many (perhaps hidden) sides of your erotic nature. For couples, serving each other's pleasure will be an ongoing journey that will continue for the rest of your lives together. A worthy investment into a vibrant and polarized relationship with your Beloved.

Let me show you how the polarity of dominance and submission can be a game changer in your sex life by introducing new ways of being together with fresh eyes that can literally rewire your brain's arousal centers to pleasure and desire.

Whether we meet in the safe and trusted privacy of my boudoir studio in Southern Marin, or our sessions are spread out over a weekend getaway at your favorite hotel, our time together will be where the real magic happens.

You may find this article of interest about how kink relieves stress. Something to think about.

Let's explore with a consultation 
Call me.

Dominance/Submission Training
3 session package - $950


Learning the Art of Sensual Massage(private instruction) 
"I wish you could show my partner how to touch me like this". 

I'd heard these words so many times over the years that I now teach the secrets of what I do and how I do it, so you and your partner can bring the same sensual bliss into your private space together.

If you've never owned a massage table you've been missing out on one of the most powerful aphrodisiacs there is. Laying your lover down on a table to be massaged so she or he can drop into their body and leave their mind behind is the greatest gift you can give someone you love, and the most sure-fire way to help them relax and open to sensual and sexual play.

The three of us will spend two hours together in my boudoir studio where I will share my massage secrets with you, taking you through every aspect of creating an 'off the charts' experience for your lover. This is so much more than an evening workshop sharing the space with other couples you don't know. It's an intimate, exciting, hands-on adventure with me and your sweetheart, where you'll be sharing and learning exactly how you long to be touched and afterward, taking home a whole new skill set to delight each other for years to come.

A sensual massage isn't just  working out the knots, it's sensual from beginning to end with a quality of touch that far exceeds a therapeutic massage experience. 

My clients are always telling me that I have "magic hands". You will experience  the magic that happens when you and your partner are being touched just the way you long to be.

You will learn about...

  • creating an environment that indulges all of the senses
  • the language of your hands and what you want to communicate
  • the moment to moment presence of loving connection 
  • the power of seduction using your voice
  • reading your lover's desire through their body and sounds 
  • and turning a massage into a 'sensation meditation'

Let's make sensual massage an integral part of your intimate and sexual life. 
Your partner(s) will love you for it!
2 hours
Rate - $500 for couples ($400 individuals)

Sex and Intimacy Coaching for Individuals
90 mins. $250

Couples Sex and Relationship Coaching
90 mins. $350

Private Dominance/submission Training
3 90 min. in-studio sessions $950

Private Sensual Massage Training
2 hrs $500 couples
$400 individuals  415-322-9118